Note to Self

Wallflower, there is a trend here! Pay attention!

The Diva was a commitment phobic jerk.

Mr. Pim was not that into you.

Perfectly Nice Young Man was a drunken one night stand, and he wasn't going to be in town for long.

Moby Dick was from out of town.

Friend was recently out of a significant relationship - thus an emotional wreck and completely incapable of being romantically involved with you. Not to mention you knew you were going to be leaving for a few months anyway.

Boy was also a drunken one night stand, JUST a friend and thus a mistake.

Beatles Fan had a girlfriend.

The Hipster was a man-whore.

You are, for whatever reason, attracted to unavailable men. So when you say you are having strong feelings for The Gamer, you have to consider the possibility that you may just be following a pattern. He lives in another city, your conversations are online, your initial plans to move to the city have been put on hold - he is, no matter how wonderful, unavailable!

Sort this shit out! Do you form these attachments out of a feeling of inferiority? Are you yourself afraid of committment and thus look for men who won't ask anything of you? What is it??